diff --git a/src/backend/commands/async.c b/src/backend/commands/async.c
index 2826b7e43c..beef574076 100644
--- a/src/backend/commands/async.c
+++ b/src/backend/commands/async.c
@@ -202,12 +202,19 @@ typedef struct QueuePosition
 	 (x).page != (y).page ? (y) : \
 	 (x).offset < (y).offset ? (x) : (y))
 
+/* choose logically larger QueuePosition */
+#define QUEUE_POS_MAX(x,y) \
+	(asyncQueuePagePrecedes((x).page, (y).page) ? (y) : \
+	 (x).page != (y).page ? (x) : \
+	 (x).offset > (y).offset ? (x) : (y))
+
 /*
  * Struct describing a listening backend's status
  */
 typedef struct QueueBackendStatus
 {
 	int32		pid;			/* either a PID or InvalidPid */
+	Oid			dboid;			/* backend's database OID, or InvalidOid */
 	QueuePosition pos;			/* backend has read queue up to here */
 } QueueBackendStatus;
 
@@ -224,6 +231,7 @@ typedef struct QueueBackendStatus
  * When holding the lock in EXCLUSIVE mode, backends can inspect the entries
  * of other backends and also change the head and tail pointers.
  *
+ * AsyncCtlLock is used as the control lock for the pg_notify SLRU buffers.
  * In order to avoid deadlocks, whenever we need both locks, we always first
  * get AsyncQueueLock and then AsyncCtlLock.
  *
@@ -234,8 +242,8 @@ typedef struct QueueBackendStatus
 typedef struct AsyncQueueControl
 {
 	QueuePosition head;			/* head points to the next free location */
-	QueuePosition tail;			/* the global tail is equivalent to the tail
-								 * of the "slowest" backend */
+	QueuePosition tail;			/* the global tail is equivalent to the pos of
+								 * the "slowest" backend */
 	TimestampTz lastQueueFillWarn;		/* time of last queue-full msg */
 	QueueBackendStatus backend[FLEXIBLE_ARRAY_MEMBER];
 	/* backend[0] is not used; used entries are from [1] to [MaxBackends] */
@@ -246,6 +254,7 @@ static AsyncQueueControl *asyncQueueControl;
 #define QUEUE_HEAD					(asyncQueueControl->head)
 #define QUEUE_TAIL					(asyncQueueControl->tail)
 #define QUEUE_BACKEND_PID(i)		(asyncQueueControl->backend[i].pid)
+#define QUEUE_BACKEND_DBOID(i)		(asyncQueueControl->backend[i].dboid)
 #define QUEUE_BACKEND_POS(i)		(asyncQueueControl->backend[i].pos)
 
 /*
@@ -459,6 +468,7 @@ AsyncShmemInit(void)
 		for (i = 0; i <= MaxBackends; i++)
 		{
 			QUEUE_BACKEND_PID(i) = InvalidPid;
+			QUEUE_BACKEND_DBOID(i) = InvalidOid;
 			SET_QUEUE_POS(QUEUE_BACKEND_POS(i), 0, 0);
 		}
 	}
@@ -905,6 +915,10 @@ AtCommit_Notify(void)
 static void
 Exec_ListenPreCommit(void)
 {
+	QueuePosition head;
+	QueuePosition max;
+	int			i;
+
 	/*
 	 * Nothing to do if we are already listening to something, nor if we
 	 * already ran this routine in this transaction.
@@ -932,10 +946,34 @@ Exec_ListenPreCommit(void)
 	 * over already-committed notifications.  This ensures we cannot miss any
 	 * not-yet-committed notifications.  We might get a few more but that
 	 * doesn't hurt.
+	 *
+	 * In some scenarios there might be a lot of committed notifications that
+	 * have not yet been pruned away (because some backend is being lazy about
+	 * reading them).  To reduce our startup time, we can look at other
+	 * backends and adopt the maximum "pos" pointer of any backend that's in
+	 * our database; any notifications it's already advanced over are surely
+	 * committed and need not be re-examined by us.  (We must consider only
+	 * backends connected to our DB, because others will not have bothered to
+	 * check committed-ness of notifications in our DB.)  But we only bother
+	 * with that if there's more than a page worth of notifications
+	 * outstanding, otherwise scanning all the other backends isn't worth it.
+	 *
+	 * We need exclusive lock here so we can look at other backends' entries.
 	 */
-	LWLockAcquire(AsyncQueueLock, LW_SHARED);
-	QUEUE_BACKEND_POS(MyBackendId) = QUEUE_TAIL;
+	LWLockAcquire(AsyncQueueLock, LW_EXCLUSIVE);
+	head = QUEUE_HEAD;
+	max = QUEUE_TAIL;
+	if (QUEUE_POS_PAGE(max) != QUEUE_POS_PAGE(head))
+	{
+		for (i = 1; i <= MaxBackends; i++)
+		{
+			if (QUEUE_BACKEND_DBOID(i) == MyDatabaseId)
+				max = QUEUE_POS_MAX(max, QUEUE_BACKEND_POS(i));
+		}
+	}
+	QUEUE_BACKEND_POS(MyBackendId) = max;
 	QUEUE_BACKEND_PID(MyBackendId) = MyProcPid;
+	QUEUE_BACKEND_DBOID(MyBackendId) = MyDatabaseId;
 	LWLockRelease(AsyncQueueLock);
 
 	/* Now we are listed in the global array, so remember we're listening */
@@ -951,7 +989,8 @@ Exec_ListenPreCommit(void)
 	 *
 	 * This will also advance the global tail pointer if possible.
 	 */
-	asyncQueueReadAllNotifications();
+	if (!QUEUE_POS_EQUAL(max, head))
+		asyncQueueReadAllNotifications();
 }
 
 /*
@@ -1154,6 +1193,7 @@ asyncQueueUnregister(void)
 		QUEUE_POS_EQUAL(QUEUE_BACKEND_POS(MyBackendId), QUEUE_TAIL);
 	/* ... then mark it invalid */
 	QUEUE_BACKEND_PID(MyBackendId) = InvalidPid;
+	QUEUE_BACKEND_DBOID(MyBackendId) = InvalidOid;
 	LWLockRelease(AsyncQueueLock);
 
 	/* mark ourselves as no longer listed in the global array */